i had a boyfriend for 4 months, we never been going out together as both of us live in a boarding school. we see each other on the holiday but we never get a chance to go out.we did chat on phone but not alot after we had decide to be together.

he was scare to let others know that he had a girlfriend, so we kept it as a sercet. but my friends knows about it.

and also there are family problem.

when we are decide to be together, i know he dont love me as in his heart there are lot of girls that he likes, but after what we had go through , i know he love me.

after a long period, i found out that, we both are not suit to be together, and i decide to end our relationship at the end of the year.

but i can't let hime go...

should i broken up with him ? or let see what will happen later?

希望越大，有時失望越大•..雖然都是第一次交往，但是還是得調整自己的腳步，不要讓自己的感情戰勝過理智，交往都是長長久久..再交往過程中..可以想想如果想長遠交往下去...是否能有默契的感覺或是大家彼此交心..如果一方想用逃避或有些不想據實已告..相信這都不會是有誠意的表現..那自己就要稍稍踩一下煞車..

踩差車的動作是很重要的...讓自己忙.轉移感情的重心..急不來的..即使愛情消逝了..也要想辦法調適..總不能將愛情當作生活的全部，這樣很容易受傷的...

把自己想成是普通朋友..這樣才不會"多情總為無情傷"





>【 在 Qoo灰姑娘 的大作中提到: 】

>yes i can read chinese

>this four month it is so hard for me...i been so stress and i hard to do study too...

>but anyway la... we both had a family problem....the problem is that our parent won't let us 交往.

>we both know that we are learning stuff as we going along but things wont turn out that good.

>he is my first boyfriend and also i'm his first girlfriend

>it will be so hard for me...

>

>

>>【 在 葆璘似 的大作中提到: 】

>>Dear Qoo灰姑娘

>>妳應看得懂中文吧！？

>>這四個月和他在一起真的快樂嗎？

>>為什麼他不讓別人知道你們交往的事呢？

>>如是見不了光的關係，妳確定妳想要嗎？

>>人生就是要不斷學習

>>把這次的際遇當作實習

>>為將來遇到那個對的人

>>不要急

>>也許妳的Mr. Right在遇到妳之前

>>也正在挫敗中學習呢！

>>

>>

>>

>>>【 在 Qoo灰姑娘 的大作中提到: 】

>>>i had a boyfriend for 4 months, we never been going out together as both of us live in a boarding school. we see each other on the holiday but we never get a chance to go out.we did chat on phone but not alot after we had decide to be together.

>>>he was scare to let others know that he had a girlfriend, so we kept it as a sercet. but my friends knows about it.

>>>and also there are family problem.

>>>when we are decide to be together, i know he dont love me as in his heart there are lot of girls that he likes, but after what we had go through , i know he love me.

>>>after a long period, i found out that, we both are not suit to be together, and i decide to end our relationship at the end of the year.

>>>but i can't let hime go...

>>>should i broken up with him ? or let see what will happen later?

>>>

yes i can read chinese

this four month it is so hard for me...i been so stress and i hard to do study too...

but anyway la... we both had a family problem....the problem is that our parent won't let us 交往.

we both know that we are learning stuff as we going along but things wont turn out that good.

he is my first boyfriend and also i'm his first girlfriend

it will be so hard for me...





>【 在 葆璘似 的大作中提到: 】

>Dear Qoo灰姑娘

>妳應看得懂中文吧！？

>這四個月和他在一起真的快樂嗎？

>為什麼他不讓別人知道你們交往的事呢？

>如是見不了光的關係，妳確定妳想要嗎？

>人生就是要不斷學習

>把這次的際遇當作實習

>為將來遇到那個對的人

>不要急

>也許妳的Mr. Right在遇到妳之前

>也正在挫敗中學習呢！

>

>

>

>>【 在 Qoo灰姑娘 的大作中提到: 】

>>i had a boyfriend for 4 months, we never been going out together as both of us live in a boarding school. we see each other on the holiday but we never get a chance to go out.we did chat on phone but not alot after we had decide to be together.

>>he was scare to let others know that he had a girlfriend, so we kept it as a sercet. but my friends knows about it.

>>and also there are family problem.

>>when we are decide to be together, i know he dont love me as in his heart there are lot of girls that he likes, but after what we had go through , i know he love me.

>>after a long period, i found out that, we both are not suit to be together, and i decide to end our relationship at the end of the year.

>>but i can't let hime go...

>>should i broken up with him ? or let see what will happen later?

>>

Dear Qoo灰姑娘

妳應看得懂中文吧！？

這四個月和他在一起真的快樂嗎？

為什麼他不讓別人知道你們交往的事呢？

如是見不了光的關係，妳確定妳想要嗎？

人生就是要不斷學習

把這次的際遇當作實習

為將來遇到那個對的人

不要急

也許妳的Mr. Right在遇到妳之前

也正在挫敗中學習呢！







>【 在 Qoo灰姑娘 的大作中提到: 】

>i had a boyfriend for 4 months, we never been going out together as both of us live in a boarding school. we see each other on the holiday but we never get a chance to go out.we did chat on phone but not alot after we had decide to be together.

>he was scare to let others know that he had a girlfriend, so we kept it as a sercet. but my friends knows about it.

>and also there are family problem.

>when we are decide to be together, i know he dont love me as in his heart there are lot of girls that he likes, but after what we had go through , i know he love me.

>after a long period, i found out that, we both are not suit to be together, and i decide to end our relationship at the end of the year.

>but i can't let hime go...

>should i broken up with him ? or let see what will happen later?

>

建議妳先檢討一下妳跟他不和的地方在哪裡,

如果那些地方是妳非常無法忍受的,

就早些跟他討論,　看看是妳誤會他了,　

還是真的他的想法讓妳無法跟他繼續走下去...　



嗯...遇到問題時,　不要自己ㄍㄧㄥ著都不說唷~ ^^



>【 在 Qoo灰姑娘 的大作中提到: 】

>i had a boyfriend for 4 months, we never been going out together as both of us live in a boarding school. we see each other on the holiday but we never get a chance to go out.we did chat on phone but not alot after we had decide to be together.

>he was scare to let others know that he had a girlfriend, so we kept it as a sercet. but my friends knows about it.

>and also there are family problem.

>when we are decide to be together, i know he dont love me as in his heart there are lot of girls that he likes, but after what we had go through , i know he love me.

>after a long period, i found out that, we both are not suit to be together, and i decide to end our relationship at the end of the year.

>but i can't let hime go...

>should i broken up with him ? or let see what will happen later?

>

Yes, agree with blossoming tree.



Further, Think about this :



Being together : 1. "Why" you want to be with him ?

2. "Why" he wants to be with you ?



Breaking up : We have had many breaking up tragedy in our society these years. Do not be alone dealing this issue is the best protection I can imagine now.







>【 在 會開花的樹 的大作中提到: 】

>其實妳的心中已經有了答案不是嗎？不要害怕，妳說出來的問題不就是你的顧慮嗎？勇敢一點！妳自己已經知道答案了。

>加油！女孩！

>

>

>>【 在 Qoo灰姑娘 的大作中提到: 】

>>i had a boyfriend for 4 months, we never been going out together as both of us live in a boarding school. we see each other on the holiday but we never get a chance to go out.we did chat on phone but not alot after we had decide to be together.

>>he was scare to let others know that he had a girlfriend, so we kept it as a sercet. but my friends knows about it.

>>and also there are family problem.

>>when we are decide to be together, i know he dont love me as in his heart there are lot of girls that he likes, but after what we had go through , i know he love me.

>>after a long period, i found out that, we both are not suit to be together, and i decide to end our relationship at the end of the year.

>>but i can't let hime go...

>>should i broken up with him ? or let see what will happen later?

>>

其實妳的心中已經有了答案不是嗎？不要害怕，妳說出來的問題不就是你的顧慮嗎？勇敢一點！妳自己已經知道答案了。

加油！女孩！





>【 在 Qoo灰姑娘 的大作中提到: 】

>i had a boyfriend for 4 months, we never been going out together as both of us live in a boarding school. we see each other on the holiday but we never get a chance to go out.we did chat on phone but not alot after we had decide to be together.

>he was scare to let others know that he had a girlfriend, so we kept it as a sercet. but my friends knows about it.

>and also there are family problem.

>when we are decide to be together, i know he dont love me as in his heart there are lot of girls that he likes, but after what we had go through , i know he love me.

>after a long period, i found out that, we both are not suit to be together, and i decide to end our relationship at the end of the year.

>but i can't let hime go...

>should i broken up with him ? or let see what will happen later?

>