Hello, everyone.
I feel the same when I see the forum about vegetarian food between our life. I have been a vegetarian more than ten years though I am still young. I really came across such experiences like you guys, so there are some thoughts which come my mind below.
If you are a vegetarian , you may ever be asked such quesitions,"Don't be angry, you are a vegetarian.","How come you did such things, you are a vegetarian","You are not like a vegetarian, Because your behaviors are like ordinary people." Anyway,however,such questions are the best mirror which reflects your defects and can help you change your bad movements or actions. You,therefore, should be glad when people say such suggestions you don't like. All you need to do is to accept it, even to thank them.
On the other hand, every vegetarian might be meet different people,environments or difficulties when they are in the workplace, overseas or tour. Nevertheless we cannot change everything, but we can alter our mind. That is,therefore,no matter whatever hardships we meet, we can naturally accept it and don't complain anything.
Finally, the people beside us will consider we, vegetarians, kind, trust and integrity although they don't think so at the beginning.