希望越大，有時失望越大•..雖然都是第一次交往，但是還是得調整自己的腳步，不要讓自己的感情戰勝過理智，交往都是長長久久..再交往過程中..可以想想如果想長遠交往下去...是否能有默契的感覺或是大家彼此交心..如果一方想用逃避或有些不想據實已告..相信這都不會是有誠意的表現..那自己就要稍稍踩一下煞車..

踩差車的動作是很重要的...讓自己忙.轉移感情的重心..急不來的..即使愛情消逝了..也要想辦法調適..總不能將愛情當作生活的全部，這樣很容易受傷的...

把自己想成是普通朋友..這樣才不會"多情總為無情傷"





>【 在 Qoo灰姑娘 的大作中提到: 】

>yes i can read chinese

>this four month it is so hard for me...i been so stress and i hard to do study too...

>but anyway la... we both had a family problem....the problem is that our parent won't let us 交往.

>we both know that we are learning stuff as we going along but things wont turn out that good.

>he is my first boyfriend and also i'm his first girlfriend

>it will be so hard for me...

>

>

>>【 在 葆璘似 的大作中提到: 】

>>Dear Qoo灰姑娘

>>妳應看得懂中文吧！？

>>這四個月和他在一起真的快樂嗎？

>>為什麼他不讓別人知道你們交往的事呢？

>>如是見不了光的關係，妳確定妳想要嗎？

>>人生就是要不斷學習

>>把這次的際遇當作實習

>>為將來遇到那個對的人

>>不要急

>>也許妳的Mr. Right在遇到妳之前

>>也正在挫敗中學習呢！

>>

>>

>>

>>>【 在 Qoo灰姑娘 的大作中提到: 】

>>>i had a boyfriend for 4 months, we never been going out together as both of us live in a boarding school. we see each other on the holiday but we never get a chance to go out.we did chat on phone but not alot after we had decide to be together.

>>>he was scare to let others know that he had a girlfriend, so we kept it as a sercet. but my friends knows about it.

>>>and also there are family problem.

>>>when we are decide to be together, i know he dont love me as in his heart there are lot of girls that he likes, but after what we had go through , i know he love me.

>>>after a long period, i found out that, we both are not suit to be together, and i decide to end our relationship at the end of the year.

>>>but i can't let hime go...

>>>should i broken up with him ? or let see what will happen later?

>>>