
我們吃素的每次當我們要去吃喜酒或參加宴會的時候心裡總是會先想到不知是否有素桌的?
素食餐宴並不是考慮要不要去的主要狀況.而是和朋友之間的友誼才是決定要不要參加最主要的因素.譬如,你的死黨將會告訴你,你是我最好的朋友,所以你一定要來參加喔.雖然你是我朋友當中唯一吃素的,但我一定會準備最好的素食餐點來款待你的.只有你才有這樣的待遇喔!
當死黨要你去吃他的喜酒時,他早就為你考慮了你所有的不方便之處
所以囉,一般的朋友頂多就是翻翻聯絡簿,然後禮貌性的邀請你而已.
這時候你就必須想想你們交情的深淺再決定你要不要去.你還得猜想他們的宴會是否有準備素桌再考慮是否要不要去.
因此你認為,該不該告訴並協助你的要好朋友如何來準備喜宴的素桌?
(希望沒有偏離原意太多)
>【 在 Kevin Liu 的大作中提到: 】
> Every time when we, vegetarins, think whether we should
>attend a wedding feast or the like, what comes form your mind first? Vegetarian feast cannot be a main condition which you consider if you wanna go. The friendship between you and your friends are the most important reason which you decide to. A congenial friend will tell you that you are my close friend and you must attend my feast, though you are the only vegetarian friend of mine, but I still happy to set a vegetarian food for you, just for you. A congenial friend will think about all your unconveniece when they call you his/her wedding banquet.
> so a nomal friend might just look their yearbook up and ask you to come. Meanwhile you should rethink about your friendship and choose to go or not to go. Belive it or not, such a friend's feast you shall not go , no matter if they set a vegetarian banquet. Therefore if you are really good friend, you can talk about anything even help your friend set a vegeatrian bqnquet if they do how to prepare. How do you think??